February 2, 2005
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singleness Posted at 03:44 PM got this off friendster, although the twentysomehting parts don't apply to me.. oh well.. read on...  The Gift of Being Single TOO often people want what they want, or think they want at the moment, which is usually "happiness" right now. The irony of their impatience is that only by learning to wait, and by willingness to accept the bad with the good do we usually attain those things that are truly worthwhile. I have a blessing which is sometimes seen as a curse. I am blessed with the gift of being single. For most of us twentysomething young professionals, it seems the world has already come up with its own set of expectations on how we should live life. The world expects us to finish school in our early twenties, get a job, find the love of our lives by the time we reach our mid-twenties, marry and have kids. But the thing is, not everyone sees their dreams come true in the same way. In this article, I shall try to endeavor to change the way the world looks at being single. The Art of Contentment. For most of us, being single will be more of a phase than a final destination. This is the best place to practice the art of contentment. Someday, I'm sure most of us will fall in love and get married. But the thing is, love will always be tested. Someone more handsome, more charming, richer, funnier, sweeter would come along. If you have not practiced the art of contentment as a single person, chances are you would be tempted to want that and not cherish your chosen one. Practicing the Art of Contentment as a single person means that you take what life gives you, good or bad, you're willing to see it through. It means you don't walk away every time things get tough because it builds in you patience, perseverance, understanding and a hundred different virtues that people in a hurry will never have. Being single means you would find how it feels to be alone thus, allowing you to cherish every moment you spend with your chosen one. The art of contentment means you wouldn't mind if life had to make you wait for so long to find the love of your life, because you know that the waiting would only make the finding much sweeter. A Time to Know Yourself Better. Being single is a time of your life when you can get to know yourself better. You can pursue different interests and passions without having to ask another person's approval. It is a phase when you can keep focus on other things, discover your potentials and talents, and see yourself become more than what you expect to be. Allow yourself to surprise you. Stop wasting precious energy trying to figure out why you're still romantically unattached. It's all in the mind. Take the time to go see your friends, spend time with your family, do charity work and you will realize that you are not, and never for one moment, was alone. Try to get to know yourself first before you try to get to know other people. To be truly loved means to be known and accepted for who you are. How do you expect other people to know you and to love you, when you don't know who and what you really are? A Choice between Good and Best. Sometimes the dilemmas we face are not between what is absolutely bad and absolutely good. Sometimes, it's between good and best. Treat this stage of your life as a phase to evaluate who is good for you and who is best for you. Sometimes, you won't hear music, or feel magic to know who's best for you. The heart just knows and it doesn't need any romantically charged scenario to decide on the matter. Trust in your heart, and trust that time will eventually lead you to, not to the perfect partner, but to the most suitable partner for you. Being single is a phase of life that we need to be thankful for, because being single means our hearts have yet to choose the best one for us. Almost a Non-committal. Jane Austen once wrote, that it is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man (or in our times a woman), in possession of a good fortune is in search of a spouse (just to be politically correct). Well, that was what the old school wanted us to believe in. Married life is a path most of us would take, however, it is not the only path there is. Relieve yourself of the pressure and stop making every single, straight guy friend a prospect. You have no business "entrapping" them and asking (which is more like "putting a gun in the head") them of their exclusive attention, if you're not ready for commitment yourself. Sometimes, when you spend too much time trying to find a boyfriend, you normally end us marrying the first loser who comes to your door. Take your time, the world will wait. Being married doesn't guarantee that it will make your life happy. It doesn't guarantee anything at all. Sometimes, it only brings two miserable people together only to make their life even more miserable. Without the right intention, the emotional maturity, financial security and of course, unwavering love, you're better off unattached. Living Life. Don't put your life on hold for Mr. Right but don't let it waste away with Mr. Wrong. Life is about things that you do and happen to you everyday. It's not about the things that could have happened but never did, or things that you think would happen in the future. Live life now. Live it to the fullest and stop beating yourself up, trying to be perfect on a Saturday night date. Allow life to surprise you with it's most wonderful blessings. |
January 24, 2005
laugh trip Posted at 03:42 PM i know its corny, pero sobrang laugh trip pa din.. go ahead.. indulge..    BATTLE OF THE BRAINLESS Message: Emcee (MC) : Ano ang national animal ng Pilipinas? It begins with the letter K. (Kalabaw) Brainless (BL): Kuto! MC : Mali! Sa lupa ito gumagalaw, hindi sa ulo. BL : Kutong-lupa? MC : Ano ang national animal ng Australia? It begins with the letter K.(Kangaroo) BL : Kalabaw! MC : Mali! It ends with the letter O. BL : Kabayo! MC : Mali pa rin! Tumatalon-talon ito. BL : Kuneho! MC : Mali pa rin! It ends with double-O. BL : KunehO-O? MC : Ano ang tawag sa tagasagip sa nalulunod? (Lifeguard) BL : Safeguard! MC : Mali! It begins with the letter L. BL : Lifebuoy? MC : Mali! Matipuno ang katawan nito. BL : Mr. Clean! MC : Ano ang national bird ng Pilipinas? It begins with the letter M. (Maya) BL : Manok! MC : Mali! Kulay brown ito. BL : Pritong Manok? MC : Mali! Maliit na maliit ito. BL : Maggi Chicken Cube! MC : Ano ang national flower ng Pilipinas? It begins with the letter S. (Sampaguita) BL : Sitsaron! MC : Mali! Flower sabi, hindi pagkain. BL : Sitsarong bulaklak? MC : Mali! It ends with the letter "A". BL : Sitsarong bulaklak with suka! MC : Mali pa rin! Kapangalan ito ng isang singer. BL : Sharon Cuneta. MC : Sino ang pumatay kay Magellan? Initials niya ay LL. (LapuLapu) BL : Lito Lapid! MC : Mali! Inuulit ang pangalan. BL : Lito Lito! MC : Mali pa rin! First name lang. BL : LotLot! MC : Hindi! Mas mahaba iyon. BL : LotLot ... and Friends? MC : Si Inday Badiday ay tinaguriang Reyna ng blank. Anong blank ito and it starts with the letter I? (Intrigues) BL : I to I! MC : Mali. Ito ay source ng mga away. BL : Isnaban! MC : Hindi. Ginagamit ito ng ibang mga artista at producers para kumita ng kanilang pelikula. BL : Interview! MC : Hindi! Ito ay nakakainis! BL : Insekto! MC : Sino ang unang Chess Grandmaster of Asia na ang pangalan ang isang chess piece? (Eugene TORRE) BL : Carole KING! MC : Mali! Mas mababa sa King. BL : Al QUINN? MC : Mali. Tagalog/Spanish ang apelyido niya. BL : Armida Siguion-REYNA? MC : Try again. Mas mababa sa reyna. BL : BISHOP Bacani! MC : Mali. Mas mababa pa sa bishop. BL : Johnny MidNIGHT! MC : Hay, naku, mas mababa pa sa knight. BL : Jerry Pons! MC : Bueno, nabanggit mo na halos lahat ng chess figures. Isa na lang ang hindi pa at iyon na iyon! BL : Ah, si Sylvia La Torre! MC : Ano'ng flotation device ang ginagamit sa dagat upang hindi ka malunod na nagsisimula sa letter S? (Salbabida) BL : Sirena? MC : Mali! Hindi ito babae! BL : Siyokoy? MC : Mali pa rin! Hindi ito lalaki! BL : Siyoke! MC : Saan binaril si Jose Rizal? Nagsisismula sa letter B. (Bagumbayan) BL : Sa back! MC : O, sige. Pwede na rin na sa L nagsisimula ang sagot. (Luneta) BL : Likod? MC : Hindi pa rin. Para mas madali, RP and initials ng modern name ngayon.(Rizal Park) BL : Sa rear part! suntok sa buwan-- session road |